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Smile, Dance and Sing
Are you using your “ Ness ?”

By Doug Nielsen

Have you seen the movie “You Me and Dupree”? It’s a crazy story of a friend—Dupree--who comes to live with his recently married buddy Carl and his wife. Dupree has a way of creating chaos everywhere he goes. The story takes all kinds of fun and crazy turns. Ultimately the newlyweds are separated and on the verge of divorce when Dupree feels compelled to help save Carl’s marriage. In a conversation with Carl, Dupree challenges Carl to use his Carl "Ness"—to tap into his strength and unleash his power to never give up and fight for what he wants--his marriage!

That “Ness” exists within all of us. However, often, we hide it or lose focus of it.

One day when I was walking into Walmart, I was met by a greeter who was dancing, singing and wearing a huge smile. WOW! Her enthusiasm was contagious. To the tune of La Bomba she sang, “ Wa Wa Wa. . . Welcome to Wal-Mart. . ., we are glad you’re here… Wa Wa Wa. . . Welcome to Wal-Mart. . .” It was awesome! She tapped into her “Ness” and she was not afraid to use it! Her
“Ness” was putting smiles on customers’ faces and endearing them to Walmart through her smile, song and dance.

I am always moved when I see a person using their “Ness” to become uninhibited and free! Are you free?

What is your “Ness?” If I were to ask a friend, a co-worker, and a family member how would they describe you? What theme would emerge?

How would you describe your “Ness”? What do you want your “ Ness ” to be?

Challenge:

1. First define your “Ness.” It is something that is unique to you and will take courage to implement. However, upon application it will invigorate you!

2. Next make a goal to let it shine daily. Don’t allow fear to hold you captive!

I promise you that as you add your “Ness” –your unique brand and signature to your life not only will you benefit but so will the world!

God Bless, Take Life by the Helm and Smooth sailing even in the storms.

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